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First About You

I believe I know the reason what brought you here. What type of woman you are and what limiting believes you hold close to your aching heart.

Successful girls don’t cry. They punch every day in the face.

You work hard to be the best partner +the best employee + the best daughter 

+ the best beach body + and on and on and on.

You read loads of self-help books on success and now have 

plans and goals for every day, month and year. 

Your wear your ‘To-Do List’ like a badge of honour!

You are continually chasing the next milestone and keeping up with the ‘Jones’.

And maybe from the outside, you even look like you ‘Have it All’.

BUT YOU DON’T, far from it! 

You hate your body.

Your health has been derailed.

Your love life sucks.

Your career is staling, or you feel like an imposter.

You don’t have time to recharge. 

You don’t have time to think about not having time. 

Your whole life is governed by rules of what success, good sex, love, 

beauty and the good life are supposed to look like. 

Everything you are now has been designed not by you but by someone else. 

Who? Most likely by an emotionally constipated dude who drives Tesla or some other expensive car to compensate for his boldness. The one who sends you his dick-pics because he is all about sexually empowering women. I could be wrong because no one knows for sure.
So f*ck the rules!

Time to change the name of the game and make your own rules about how you want to live your life. 

No more crying yourself to sleep. No more following. No more working hard. 

No more ‘but I have to do this’. No more ‘I am sorry I am too much’. 

No more saying YES when you mean NO.

About Me

VJ VON ART – the creative beast, freethinker, deep thinker and a total right-brainer.

I am one of those lucky few people who always knew what I wanted to be, and ever since I can remember, I was told that it would be the end of me. I did try to stop daydreaming and be a responsible adult, but it came at the cost of my physical and mental health.  One day it hit me, that the rescue ship was not coming and I was the one calling all the shots. That day I made a conscious decision to follow my heart.

I am FREE, and I am 100% M.E. 🙂

VJ VON ART – the creative beast, freethinker, deep thinker and a total right-brainer.

I am one of those lucky few people who always knew what I wanted to be, and ever since I can remember, I was told that it would be the end of me. I did try to stop daydreaming and be a responsible adult, but it came at the cost of my physical and mental health.  One day it hit me, that the rescue ship was not coming and I was the one calling all the shots. That day I made a conscious decision to follow my heart.

I am FREE, and I am 100% M.E. 🙂

Key Facts

  • I am a Dyslexic, and I love it. My brain is well funky: I can’t remember dates, numbers (yep, I need a calculator to count how old I am, every freaking time), but I worked in finance and nailed it. I process double the visual and emotional information than ordinary people, as my filter for relevance is totally screwed. I am analysing and categorising everything at all times. It’s both fun and exhausting.
 
  • I am a full-time Artist. Art and Creativity is an integral part of how I work and live my life. By the way, we are all artists, you just made a decision to grow up, and I chose to stay playing.
 
  • I am a Psychonaut. I love nature, and I believe it holds the key to unlocking our true potential and showing us what we are when the social, political and cultural conditioning is stripped away. I also use other nonpsychedelic plants and methods to hack my brain to reduce my ego. I am a member of MAPS (Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies).

I was born in Lithuania before the fall of the Soviet Union. My childhood was awesome and painful at the same time. Awesome because I had a strong connection to nature and art thanks to my grandparents. I had the best teachers and role models a child could get. Painful because I suffered many betrayals such as sexual abuse, broken relationship with my mother and father, death of everyone who supported and loved me and a complete loss of identity as I was made to move countries twice in my teens.

By the age of 25, my health had become a part-time job. My body and mind had become a storage box of my abuse, illness, being different, not belonging, not being enough, not being capable, and most definitely NOT being strong. I was clinically depressed, scared and alone. From the outside, I was keeping it all together, but on the inside, I was crumbling.
One freezing February night I found myself standing on a bridge at 12am in my pyjamas staring at the water, it was as if I was asleep all my life and suddenly freezing my ass woke me up. This was the moment when I realised that the rescue ship is not going to turn up to save me and that I was responsible for my own happiness, love and future.

I challenged my limiting believes, food habits and spring cleaned toxic people out of my lives. I faced my biggest fears, pain, medical condition (CFS or ME) and various social taboos surrounding mental illness, finances, success and love.

It did not take years to get better, it took me exactly 3 months to untangle the confusion of who I was and 6 months to completely own it. It took me 12 months to 90% overcome the CFS/ ME. I can honestly say that I have survived the shitstorm of my life and came out strong, sexy and in love with life, myself and my now husband.

My husband and I wanted to be present in our lives and improve our health. We wanted our life to be an adventure. We challenged ourselves to retrain our mind, hack our consciousness and explore the far corners of our brain. We wanted to make money doing work that allowed us to create lasting relationships with our clients that our previous jobs and suffocating titles did no tallow. And last but not least, we wanted to be part of things that had a positive impact on the world.

Jim Rohn once said, ‘If you don’t like where you live move, you are not a tree’. We followed his advice quite literally. We sold most things we owned, packed 2 suitcases, and left London. We did not know the ‘where’ or the ‘how’ but we knew the ‘why’.

What started as a journey within has manifested into a calling to help people like you find your ‘Why’ and help you to design the life you deserve.

The Name

BOLD/bohld/ adj. – beyond the usual limits of conventional thought or action; imaginative; not hesitating to break the rules.

TONY /təʊni/ adj. (urban dictionary)- when something is awesome. Exceptional. Cool.

Are you ready to find your own path to more sustainable success and living life on your terms?

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